Open to meeting BUT full Transparency: I’m a wife and mom first. Relationship has shifted over time we’re more like roommates or close friends now. My husband doesn’t know I’m here, but he’s aware that I have my own kinks and needs. I’m not here to vent about my marriage, just to explore the parts of myself that deserve attention, connection, and care. If that’s something you can respect, we’ll get along just fine.
I am on Fetlife too, I've come back to find a connection, that matters to me more than anything else. I’m not new to this, and connection, depth, and intensity don’t mean disruption to my life or anyone else’s. With that said, discretion is a must. If I say I know how to compartmentalize, I mean it. If you’ve read this far, understand that I’m not here for noise or attention.
I’ve got a bratty streak!!! Playful and stubborn, I do like to see what kind of reactions I can get out of you, but also know the time and place for it too. I’m also tenacious, bashful, soft, and loyal when someone knows how to truly see me. I’m sapiosexual for the most part. if you can’t stimulate my mind, the rest doesn’t follow.
"Doms" - Your profile can say alpha, but alpha isn’t about barking orders. No begging, demanding or request for things without the connection. I like sadistic, daddy/caregiver and sensual doms. If you don’t understand that, messages will be ignored.
UNDERSTAND THISSS: Connection MUST be solid before giving my mind or body to anyone. I'm just not that kind of person. I'm extremely self aware and have self respect when it comes to who can have access to me emotionally, mentally or physically. It's all intertwined.
I'm open to conversations that go deeper than surface level. I value intelligence, emotional depth, and someone who understands that submission is a choice, not a default.
- I carry both guardedness and softness.
- I’m not easily impressed, but I don’t forget the ones who manage it.
If you have read this, start your message with;
**The title of a song you play at least everyday.**. Two top favorite songs of mine are; One of the Girls by The Weekend and Magic by Avi Snow. List goes on..
